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Advice 50 – A better world

“Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: Time has come, the moment, of a generation that is successful; the vulnerable generation of relativism has passed; it is time to make a better world, to know good and evil, to confront them and to do personal justice, and the sentence will be a new personality, that of having your success while you are looking for the best for you, out of you, and with it receive an exchange: money, for your good work; love, for your good love; health, to take good care of you; friends, for being a good friend… and thus all you want, because yourself have your own intimate life with God and your own personal relationship with Him, and it is what makes the difference. You are different, insofar as, ask God what you want, work well to obtain it, have patience and goodness to wait for it; and while you wait, you have the personal success of honor, of being a person of honor, honorable, because this success is instantaneous; the one that you behave well, the one that you decide to have a life where the honor is for you a way of living, in the moral, in that moral dignity, where the wisdom is that governs your way of life, where you rule over yourself, never imposing on others, but helping them in all you can, to do good and what is good. They, all those who come into contact with you, receive from you, see in you, this honor that emanates from all your person, because you do not enter into relativistic polemics, you know well what is good and what is evil, and you turn away from evil and value good, and do good and what is good. We are at the gates of making a better world, and any extraterrestrials will give it to us with new philosophies or wisdom, but we ourselves can and will make this new world, only by changing ourselves; it is not even necessary that we gather, because it is God who unites us all, by praying each one to Him and asking Him the good longings of his heart. It is God who creates a spiritual bond, and we recognize ourselves as soon as we see ourselves, to see the works and words of our faith; by our way of dressing, decent, without inciting to sensual and sexual passions, which exist and serve for the delight of sacramental conjugal love; and is good, and do good; and it is romantic, to know that our fathers have begotten us, in moments of their merging in love, love that gave fruit: us. We have, or would have, to have, and may the new generations have, the prestige, the high honor of being born of  love. I was born of love, my parents loved each other and loved me, and God blessed me, being a desired daughter, loved, cared for, valued; to know that I am the fruit of the love of my parents, that moves me, and I can do nothing but love them, honor them, bless them, and be happy with them; because I was born in perfect human conditions: LOVE. And so, the new generation, must give life to their children, for the marvelous union of love between the spouses, who thus beget a son, for being man and woman, for being male and female, and the grace of femininity, united with the strength of the man, achieves, by the grace of God, to have a son of the two. That’s marvellous!; life continues, and the child represents the love with which marriage love one another. In this new world of wisdom, no one will do wrong, everyone will do good and what is good, what is correct, because they will enjoy all this, all the good they can create. Everyone is an artist, he is a creator of the works he does, of the words he says, of doing what he wants to do and does.”

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Advice 51 – Blood ties

“Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: It is necessary that, in order to succeed, you know how to live poverty; because you have to save, you can not waste, even if it is lawful, all the capital that enters you; you have to have an income plan, expenses plan and savings plan; I do not tell you, as many say, that you must give money out of charity, because if you are beginning to work out your future, the first one who needs your money is you; but I do tell you to do something for others, something out of you, that is more fruitful than giving money; you can visit the sick people, children, the elderly, you can write letters to them, that no one sends them, in hand, because first charity is HOPE; If you know how to give hope, you will have hope, and it will keep you in shape. Never forget your family, look in your family who needs company, perhaps your grandparents, or your parents, perhaps your brothers, cousins, uncles, or children… Start helping your family, especially your family; even if they do not want to, you can help them without their knowing it, enduring their criticism, enduring their bad mood; there are so many things you can do for the family!, and it is important that you do it, because the blood ties exist, there is really a blood bond, by which the descendants receive what the ancestors have done. So try your success not neglecting the family; you have to be salt, that’s true! And you have to be light, that’s also true. To thrive on your success, you will have to make some behavioral adjustments that perhaps nobody has taught you, but that are of the purest logic to be a prosperous human being. And when you have money, because you will have it, then you must give something to others, starting with the family, for their well-being, because if your family is well, you will be well, because you are part of the same blood. How much money should you give? That depends, because there will be seasons that your family will need more of you, because, for example, someone in your family is suffering from lack of work or illness; then he/she will need a quantity; give him/her what you can and what you want; you know well that you have your own personal connection with God, then, with Him you decide it; and if you are married, consult it with your spouse, not for charity, put enmity in your house; for this reason, choose to marry a person very similar to you, who believes in goodness, who practices charity. In theme of educating your children, they ALWAYS have to earn the weekly pay, because you teach them that life never gives anything for nothing, and you prepare them so that they do not have future disappointments, like those of the generation of capitalism; now it’s time to make a new world, a better world, the world of wisdom, which differentiates between good and evil, and your children must know how to fulfill their duty, the primary duty of taking care of themselves and taking care of their own, their person and things, like the people and things of the family; so teach your children that they receive, if they give, if they give the best of themselves, not only in the works but also in the words; they must start, as soon as possible, to respect others, to leave people, free, and in that freedom, to endure that, sometimes, people are tempted and are weak, and sometimes have a bad mood, or suffer from some heartbreak and make a bad face; then your children give their best face!, they have to learn what is mortification, because we are family people, we have not been born on an island; we are part of a home and we need each other, yes, because we are all part of the family, we are a family of blood and we must share the same destiny; therefore, it gives advantages to those who help others to be better, to do good and the correct thing, to do their duty, because there is a duty to do always, to get the best out of oneself, enduring the worst of others, because each one has the resistance of love, that love that each one receives from God in intimacy. Let’s make a happy family.”

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Advice 52 – Know discern and wait

“Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: There are many who want money, want a partner, want a friend… they know what they want, but they DO NOT KNOW HOW WANT IT; and the first ticket, the first person that attracts them, the first human being who speaks to them, they believe is the way to earn money, the person chosen to share life, the friendship that will help them in fidelity, and they are deceived, because, as the popular saying goes; “Not all that glitters is gold”. So you have to know how you want to earn money, how you want to spend your time in the task of earning money, in what you want to give something from yourself in exchange for money, because there are many ways to receive money and not all are worthy, but there are very unworthy ways of accessing capital, because there are those who let themselves be used, and nobody has to use you, nor do you have to use others, but you have to give and receive, give with honor and receive with honor, with that moral dignity of being a person, of giving the best of you and wanting the best of another; the success is not in the medians, but in the total surrender of giving all the best you have, of all the good you can do, of all the goodness you can give, because you have that capacity within you, to be good and do good and correct thing; that of fulfilling the ten Commandments of the Law of God, those that regulate social and affective exchange, of communicating with others and receiving their communication, in the most perfect perfection, which is in the faithful fulfillment of the Law of God. There is nothing in it that what is not pleasing to others or to yourself. Difficult, I do not deny that it is difficult, and for someone, more, because perhaps they have not been taught, as children, to give the best from themselves, and they have now found, as adults, with many scorn and disgusts that, if there were they complied with the natural law and the Law of God, which is very well explained, would now succeed where they failed; but it is always spring time, to start a new life experience, that of forgiveness, to forgive himself and others, remembering, and knowing how to understand, that he were, in some things, ignorant of the Law, and by which, he did not fulfill, and in others, he was ignorant of that force that resides in goodness, in the desire to give the best of you to life, to others, that willpower to do good, to be good and accept evil and bad thing always facing the wind, even if there is a storm and tempest, because having the inner calm of knowing what you want to do, and doing the right thing, a typhoon can come, and you still stand before the rudder that keeps your soul from perdition, and allays your body from bad temptation, for believing in priorities, that it is better to give than to lose, and is lost when one keeps the strength of goodness, because no one can always resist the goodness of your duty to do good and the good thing, the correct thing to do your duty: be good. Decide how to succeed earning your money, how to succeed choosing the best spouse for you, how to succeed sharing the good and healthy friendship of giving yourself to others in fellowship; that good friendship is that fellowship of sincerity and forgiveness, which each one gives to the other, letting him be himself in himself, and feeding him to give the best from himself, for being a good friend; that a friend is not the same as a boyfriend, the friend leaves free, the boyfriend wants to be exclusive for you, he cannot share you because he wants to get to the wedding, to the total surrender of himself in the yes of both, before God, Who blesses the spouses and makes a sacrament of their mutual and free love, gived forever, in the faithfulness of a life with children, and mutual help to holiness; which is to be good to each other and both to God, to Whom they have promised an eternal love in both of them for God. And God blesses marriages that are able to live the faith, give hope and do all work with charity, so that the world will be better and so they have their success as a family, as a Domestic Church, where good and the good thing reign, doing the correct thing, which is to fulfill the duty of love and love one another, of give and giving to one another, of accepting to receive, and understanding and helping, and serving! Everything is possible in a family of faith, because where there are two, who are united in the good and the bad that life gives, they receive from God happiness in the moments of joy and mercy in the moments of pain; God Himself comforts the faults and mistakes that each one makes to the other, and the two to life itself, because God loves the intention and good desire of the heart of two spouses who live for each other, and both for the children, the parents of the two, family and friends, neighbors, partners, and all those who have the opportunity to meet, while they living and moving on this earth, where peace is achieved by fighting with oneself for the success of having better, by give the best and waiting fervently; be recipients and bearers of goodness, which always makes others happy. Even the wicked, who mock the goodness of the good people, notice their influence on them, and feel they want to destroy that goodness; that is why some who do not do good become friends with the good people to destroy them; therefore, you always have to choose how to serve, how you want to receive money or love or friendship, because happiness is in quality, rather than the accessible; so wait, if you don’t have money yet; do not get it badly, nor accept a love at first sight, or because there is nothing better in sight; you wait, because there is on this earth, a person similar to you, who looks for you, and if he is like you, he will wait to find you; therefore, do not hurry, but you must wait to find that ideal you have in mind, an attainable ideal, that is, a person similar to you, that you are attainable, that is, you live, you exist! And the same I tell you about friendship; it is good to have real friends, and time is primary in friendship; there is no good friendship if it have not passed the test of time. Every success you want is available, God gives it to you, but you must know to obtain it and value it, and know to discern the good from the bad; do not fall into the error of many, to confuse money with capital, neither love for only passion, nor friendship for companionship; there is a lot of difference; capital is currencies to buy, money is an exchange of goods, whether at work or merchandise; love is to love the person integrally: body and soul, character, personality and their circumstances and family, which is always the family included in the marriage; and sooner or later the brothers, parents and other families will come out to intercede in your lives; that is so, and if you want to be happy, keep that in mind, and make plans to give the best of yourself and protect yourself and your family from those who have not yet learned to always do good and good thing, the correct thing. And as for friendship, likewise, friendship is never sought; you can look for romantic love, but friendship is given by circumstances; nobody puts up a sign that says: “I want a friend, I am looking for friendship“, because in friendship, there has to be empathy and circumstances where you can deliver and receive time of mutual company. Love can be sought away from you and bring it closer with the circumstances of a good courtship, to know you and see the possibility of loving you. You don’t want to be friend of a boyfriend or friend of a girlfriend; there is no friendship in love, because there is a lot of passion and jealousy, if it is authentic; the love that leads you to promise before the altar mutual fidelity, is exclusive and does not go the way of being friends, but it have very clear that one is masculine and the other feminine, because conjugal love goes to the offspring, and always children are made by the union of two different sexes; that is why, if you love a person to take him/her to the altar, there is never friendship, love is another thing, love is more than friendship.

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