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Advice 34 – Triumph and success

Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: No, is not the same to triumph than to succeed. The triumph is normally the result of a competition, is to win others at a certain point in life, in certains ways, an athlete, triumphs and wins the olympic gold medal, but all can have success, all athletes can have success, if they give the best of themselves, if in everything that they do, they do the good and the right thing, allowing others to be free and make with their life what they want. Many people triumph canceling the freedom of others, that’s not success!, the success that comes from within, that really comes from you and you give it to you, because other can give you the triumph for you; you can have money because you have a good sales team, but success is yours if you choose this sales team and you have choosen the best people to do the good and the right thing. With tricks also sell products, and this is a triumph, but success is that you sell good products, the best products at a fair price! Some people get good marks bribing the deans or cheating on exams, and they triumph, but if they can not apply their studies, they don´t succeed!, because they will make a sloppy work there where they must to give the best of themselves. And they can deceive one day, but not every day of a long life. One person can to get married to a person for his body, for his money, for his fame, but once married, she lives with the person, with what is this person, with his character, and yes, many people get divorce, but divorce is a failure it´s never a success. If you want to succeed in your marriage, look for a person that you like him and have good character, who is good, but you will triumph one day, the day of the wedding, but you will fail the rest of your life; and to you, what interests you is the success, or not?”

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Advice 35 – You´re your own success:

Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: You will never succeed, snatching what is from others, althought is their spouse, their ideas, their partners, their belongings, their contracts, their customers. Make yours own!; for what take from others, when you can have yours own, for your needs, according to your character, according to your products, according to your ideas and mentality? You’ll never succeed if you take what is from others!, and nobody is a successful person if he has to take from other what other has and gives to him success. Success, to be success, it has to settle on the basis of freedom. You can have your own spouse, for what take who is from the other?, you can have your own business, for what take which is from the other?… You will never be satisfied of yourself with what others have or their leftovers. You can have your own first fruits and prosper with your dreams, making them a reality and without harming anyone. Especially when children are harmed, when there are marriages with children and you are the cause of their divorce, you can never have success on this! Look for your own happiness with a free person like you, don´t damage to children, neither yours nor those of others. God has always had a especial predilection for the children, the sick, the widows, and all who suffer. You imitate Jesus, the Christ, and have compassion on them and put peace in their life, instead of giving them more war, by getting into where doesn’t concern you. Don´t ever break a marriage or a business from others!, because although they say to you and someone complains, there has been a contract and you must to respect the freedom of all, and not the actual freedom, but also the freedom of the commitment that they made years ago. To respect the property of others, is a principle of natural law and is also in the Law of God. And don´t obsess with what is not yours, but you must to take out of the life what is yours, create it with your own hands, go out of your dreams, because in this life, there is something for everyone, and the success is individual; you must to do it for you, according to your qualities, and the more qualities you get to have; your success will be greater, because the success are yourself, you are your own success. Give you value, value you!, and get to work on yourself, for the more good you are, more good will be your success! Your success depends on you. Saints are those who have achieved the greatest, the best success: the perfection. And they have done many wonderful things, and they are remembered even today, some, centuries after their passage through life, true success is everlasting!”

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Advice 36 – You never get a good of an evil

Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: Keep the accounts clear, pay your taxes, if you can deducts, but that everything will be under the law, to not have problems, neither of consciousness nor legal. Look for a good accountant, a good lawyer and an economist in finance, that say to you the things clear, because many times, for not knowing, you fail. Being able to do things good, don´t do it evil, neither in your business nor in your personal and family life. Don´t have two lives!, don´t keep two accounts!, think that success is given by God, and God isn´t in lie; God is in the cunning and in the works of mercy; I mean that the law, always, if you know it, you can do that it will be in your favor, if you do things good, with good intention, good means and getting good benefits. The traps don´t shorten the way, they lengthen the failures. You can´t take a short cut with numbers, because they are always clear, two plus two always equals four. So do not think have success defrauding the State, because you will not get more than some other triumph, but the success, you can´t achieve that never!, if you don´t do the things right, well done, always making them with legality and the best of the best, doing all your work for yourself and for God who lives in you, and that God who sees everything, He will help you and applaud you. If you can´t do something legally, seek other options, but you be always legal, because you never get a good of an evil. Invent them, that your partners and you think in new options, better options, although they be longer ways but you will arrive safe!, if you take short cuts, you can get lost on the way, and this is no success. And the same goes with what you do with your future spouse, because there are things that are proper to marriage, you can´t take short cuts!, neither for the business nor for human love. Many have failed and fail for not staying in the plan of the natural thing, of the moral law!”

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Advice 37 – Your success or the triumph of others

Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: There are those who don´t know ask for forgiveness, and there are those who craftily they are asking for forgiveness, and so, if they are wrong and make mistakes, ask forgiveness all the life, and they never strive to avoid errors, because they see in asking forgiveness, the salvation of their lack of character for always do the good and not to be wrong in not do the correct thing. They throw to their desires and live the life!, thinking that they will ask for forgiveness after, and the good person forgive him. They believe that to forgive is synonymous of giving another opportunity and start again, and it isn´t like that, to forgive is a necessary thing for who is good person and wants to do the good thing and give the freedom to others, that same freedom that he protects, itself same, because the freedom of others to be free, it´s his of one same, and be free too, the same, like the others; that freedom of pay for what you do with it, receiving the good thing or the bad thing, because every act, every word, is returned. Any action of the person, every word, comes back to us, and every repetitive thought becomes word or action, and also receives its compensation. It isn´t the same to say: “Forgive me” than to say: “Give me another opportunity”; you can say both things, yes, but the forgiveness can never replace ask for another opportunity. When someone asks you for forgiveness, forgive him, indeed, forgive whom damaged you, although he doesn´t ask you for forgiveness, and give an opportunity to anyone you want, although he doesn´t ask you for forgiveness or he asks you for forgiveness; because the opportunity that you give to others, it isn´t for the forgiveness that they ask you, but for if you, freely decide to give him that opportunity. Evidently, in partnerships like marriage and in the family, many things are forgiven without to ask for forgiveness and there’s always the opportunity to continue the relationship, if you’re interested. The same can happen in a legal partnership, but in a engagement, in a friendship or possible partnership, if you have to forgive depend on what, even in marriage and society, the infidelity and the theft, are acts that you must always forgive, but they don´t condition to continue with society. Because there is who sins and trust in the goodness of who seeks success, to have a selfish live and making suffer the one who is faithful and has good feelings. Don´t leave others steal your love, you must to love and be loved, with deeds and words; if there is infidelity, is that they don´t love you. No one who works in a company will give to another company its confidences; any person understands that there is a business ethics, and there is!, as there is it also in the love, in the friendship, in all the human relationships. And to be good and do the good thing and the right thing to come to the success, is to forgive and sometimes deny the opportunity to “start again”. I speak in general terms, because everyone knows what forgives, who forgives and who wants to his side for to share that success, that success that will not be possible if you have people that make you suffer continuously. You must choose, or your success or the triumph of others.”

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Advice 38 – The success resides in you

Montserrat Bellido Durán speaks to you, for your success: Talk of the mirror, yes, of the mirror, of you look at you in the mirror, to see you. If God had wanted that people, we, see us from outside, He had given to us some qualities for this purpose, but we can only see ourselves to chunks and totally inside. If one entertains inquire into himself, in contemplate himself in the light of what you want to reach be. No matter what we lack for success, the important thing is to know how to have success, and the success resides in you, be how you are physically. The passing of time leaves signals in our body, so it is difficult to believe that one succeeds in how he´s physically, and if you look yourself too much, you begin to compare yourself to others, and that is not good for anyone who wants to be good and do the correct thing. Get off mirrors!, and you are welcome to the examination of conscience. That will be a point of support for that you can perfect yourself in the search of your success, in the personal fulfillment, each time giving you more of yourself to the others, althought they play a trick on you, they criticize you, they scorn you, they mock you, they slander you and they tell all sorts of evil against you. Don’t entertain yourself very much in your physique, you can look at you in the mirror to see you, of course!, but watch yourself from within. And who is happy inside; always looks himself good. Who is happy with his job, with to be how he is, he looks himself good and he take care of himself better because he is happy with himself. So if you want to change something of your outside, do it, helping you with your goodness, with to be good and resisting to return evil for evil, or give evil for to have bad mood or to have a bad temptation. Always resist the evil thing, the evil. Don’t want to know anything of the evil thing, and about those who do evil, don’t go with them!, because they will move you away from your success and you will be only part of their triumph. You, to your thing, to your success!, yours!, that it will always be something good for yourself and others, because of the good thing, only go out the good. The mirror that you need is a good clear conscience; is to know what is good and what is bad, and freely choose and with winner willpower, always to do the good and only the good; because you are the best, the best who can decide to do the good thing in yourself and with you, surround yourself with the success, which is the good thing that there is in the life, in who are good people, like you want to be, and there is!, because many, more frequent, there are people that get tired of triumph and want the success. Your success; to be good, the more the better, for honour.”

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